Back to the Slate: The ABC Model for Life!!

  • I want to control ‘Z’ and in order to do so I abuse and bully.
  • I abuse ‘Z’ which is a form of bullying and all because I want to be in control of ‘Z’.
  • I bully ‘Z’ because I think ‘Z’ is weak and therefore I can control and abuse.
  1. No Response
  2. Negative Response
  3. Redirection — In very simple terms it means to redirect behaviour to what was expected
  4. Positive Response
  • Describe the error or problem, clearly and without blame
  • Show its negative impact
  • If appropriate, take the blame for not making the task clear
  • Go over the task in detail and make sure it is clearly understood
  • Express continuing trust and confidence in the person

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Phyllis Farias

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